UNDER THE TABLE

Where he cannot be fully seen by others, the “strength” of a man is useless. Beneath the line of sight–under the table–he is merely a servant. He cannot use his strength or size as a means to suppress his need to surrender, and he cannot rely on the reaction of others for a sense of who he is deep within […]

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Open Invitation

Sex is expressed largely in scripted ways until we learn to identify our own unique eroticism and diversify how we express it. We may repeat the same patterns again and again until we reach an acknowledgement of personal boredom and a sense of agency in learning new ways of expressing. For many, the boredom is easy to identify, but the […]

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Brotherhood Reflected

Why not create our own sex parties that double as opportunities for us to create a sense of brotherhood with ourselves and our closest friends, or even new friends? In so doing, we bring sex out of the shadows and hold it in community, thereby enhancing our experiences of humanity, pleasure, and connection. We can even create our own “themes” […]

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